I don't know about you, but I find comfort in knowing that God is changing me. It's challenging at times to admit our faults, but I believe there is freedom in confronting our so called weaknesses for what they really are = SIN.
One area the Lord has been speaking to me a lot lately is meekness...or I should say...my lack of meekness. This is such a foreign concept to me. Partly because of my upbringing. I was never thought what it means to have a quiet spirit. Partly, because of the way God made me...talkative, loud, opinionated, outgoing...did I say talkative already?
But I've come to understand that cultivating meekness it doesn't have to be related to your personality. You can be a very quiet/shy person and still not have a meek spirit. Praise God for this one! That means there's hope for me!
I have been listening over and over again this past month, a series Nancy Leigh Demoss shared on her radio program
Revive our Hearts last June (you can still hear the broadcast from their archives).
If this is an area of struggle for you, I really recommend the series. I was very convicted...but at the same time given hope. She quoted many passages of scripture that speak on the topic. Many I had heard before but never really pay attention to them.
One thing I finally understood is how cultivating meekness relates so much to the way I deal with others. By God's grace I believe this will be an area of growth for the rest of this year . And that I will learn finally to be slow to speak, slow to get angry and quick to listen.
Nancy shared a list of comparison, with wonderful Bible references, of what a meek woman is like and what is not. I've printed this list for reference and will continue to look and pray over some of these areas.
Here's the link to list....
Characteristics of a Meek SpiritThroughout the series she also quoted from a book by puritan Matthew Henry. Here's some of the quotes that spoke to me the most...
“Meekness is the silent submission of the soul to the 'providence' of God concerning us.”—Matthew HenryIsn't this so true?! If I keep silent during a situation that I don't agree with or judge as unfair, I am submitting to God and saying..."you know what is best, Lord. I don't need to fight this one". So revealing and freeing for me! Really need to have this perspective.
“It is better by silence to yield to our brother, who is, or has been, or may be, our friend, than by angry speaking to yield to the devil, who has been, and is, and ever will be , our sworn enemy.”—Matthew HenryOh my! Did you read that again? I know I had to read this one few times! When I choose to give in to my anger, I am giving in to the enemy. After all, he wants our family to be divided, he doesn't want me to be a godly mother to my kids, right? But when I choose to yield to a person in silence...I extend the grace of God to them! Oh Lord, pierce this truth in my heart!
“If God should be as angry with me for every provocation as I am with those about me, what would become of me?”—Matthew HenryNot much to be said about this quote. I think is spelled out pretty clear. The answer is...I would be already destroyed by His wrath. Thank you God, for your gift of forgiveness through Jesus Christ. Help me to be kind with one another, tenderhearted and above all forgiving one another, as you, in Christ forgave me (Ephesians 4:32).